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Why do people talk about others behind their backs?

Why do people talk about others behind their backs?

Do you have this question in mind? Or do you have a thousand or ten thousand words to insult these people? Think before you insult and say you have and will never do the same…

So why do people do this? Talking behind other people’s back? Of course, there are tens of millions of reasons and excuses, but today, we will discuss only one of them.

First of all, when a person is aggrieved but is afraid to confront the other party that he/she is wrong in blaming him/her, this aggrieved person will find another person that he/she trusted the most or in the closest proximity to complain and share his/her grievances, and talk about what the person who wronged them did and how they wronged them. This is the kind of talking behind someone’s back that we are sharing today.

Are you thinking that this situation is different? But what makes it different? Putting it into perspective, if the person who created this grievance hears from another person that he/she is being discussed by the person whom he/she just blamed, will this person thinks that this person is talking behind his/her back and saying bad things about him/her that are wrong? And if the person doesn’t feel that he/she has done anything wrong and wonder why, if the person feels aggrieved, he/she did not tell them directly instead, and went behind his/her back to share with another? In this scenario, has the “victim” change?

I believe that everyone has had experiences on both ends of this story, so before blaming another for talking behind your back, think about whether there has been any misunderstandings. Maybe some people just don’t like confrontations and want to let things quite down, or they are looking for another to empathise with them. And of course, this decision of not going directly to the person who triggered this emotion within them and not accepting the emotion that rose from within, will only deepen the misunderstandings and give opportunities to those who may have bad intentions to create drama from this.

If you do not like confrontations, then you most likely have fear within, and are not confident enough. You may need healing and you can do this through self-love or engage our help.

Kelly
Kelly

Kelly came to Earth a channeling healer with psychic abilities to help her with her Soul and Life missions. Kelly enjoys doing what she do best in many of her lifetimes, connecting with beings from the higher realms and sharing the loving guidance and healing energies she receives, to help those who are being guided to her to balance their energies and life, clear their doubts and empower them with inspirational wisdom knowledge to progress in life.

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