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June 2019 Energy Update

You may be attracting hypocrisy into your life

This article only serves as a reference and does not mean all situations must be the same. You are guided here for a reason, so tune inwards to hear your truth. Dare to dive deeper and face your inner truth.

We always hear people complaining about how others are being “fake” and how they have been “betrayed” by certain hypocritical person. They do not understand why these people are being attracted into their lives and that they felt angry when some wise men tell them that it is them who attract such situations, without first having the patience to understand why.

If you know clearly what you hate, what makes you frustrated, what makes you angry, then congratulations! Because you found the direction to what you need to heal. You just need to admit and accept this vulnerability of yours, the most authentic you, and love this side of yours, you will then see the truth behind this “hate/anger/frustration”.

Negative emotions like “hate/anger/frustration”, are usually protective walls of self-esteem, but the word “hate/angry” tends to come from those who regard themselves as victims. Because if I say “I hate you”, then I am above you, not because you abandoned me, but because I despise you. I am more Noble than you so whatever you do will be deemed by me as beneath me.

For example, when you think others did not welcome you into their group activities, would you think that you are being outcast and they are trying to form cliques or reflecting on whether you have done something wrong? If someone doesn’t share a secret with you but shares secrets with others around you, do you think they are being hypocritical and are creating cliques?

You are more likely to be hurt from such behavior and felt unloved, and this give the “little devil” within the chance to misguide you to think that the others are trying to create problems, and that you”hate” and “despise” them. These negative words are in fact “cover-ups” for defense of low self-esteem.

This is also the reason why the so-called “betrayal” and “hypocritical” events are being brought into your life. Because you have not shown your true self. This way of concealing yourself is what attracts people who also conceal themselves. Do not forget the Law of Karma, you will always receive at least three times of what you give out. So what you receive and feel will be magnified.

And of course, there will be some people who will think that they are the ones with the problems themselves. But whether you feel that someone else has a problem or feel that you have a problem, there shows a direction to be healed. There is no right or wrong here, only you do not have your own responsibilities and have no confidence in yourself. This is not enough to understand yourself, not enough to love yourself.

So instead of working out on a solution, do you then think that you hate them or is angry with them, and they are the ones with the problems? Whether you think that someone else has a problem or that you have a problem, there exists the direction to be healed.

When you love yourself, you will understand how to treat yourself well, and therefore create empathy and treat others in the same way too. Loving yourself, will help you understand the way you treat others and yourself will attract people who will treat you in the same way, resulting in you to choosing to convey your true self in the way of love. If you love yourself, you will also respect yourself enough to not let those who are not aligned with your energy to affect you, and you will not try to convince them in anyway to think like you, for you respect them too.

Some people are afraid to choose Love, and do not believe in sharing their authentic self through the way of Love. They think by choosing Love is weak, and choosing Love is being hypocritical. BUT, choosing Love is not hypocrisy. Hypocrisy is an excuse for people who wants to defend their self-esteem in a negative way. These people usually have low confidence in themselves and have very low self-esteem.

Obviously, this shows the importance of self Love.

Read more examples of Law of Attraction: [What Law of Attraction taught me II]

Note: This article only wants to share the idea that negative emotions are not problems but guidance to your healing. The examples shared here are only provided as references to help inspire you to receive your own guidance. If you are facing with similar issues and would like help with your healing, you can consider seeking an assistance from a healer or go for our Spiritual Healing service.

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What Spiritual Ascension and Healing will bring you

In the early stages of awakening, most people will see the hidden problems behind every movement, behavior, and words of a person, and therefore may usually have the urge to help everyone whom they come into contact with. At the same time, they would also want to clean up all the things and people that appear in their lives.

In the early stages of awakening, most people will see the hidden problems behind every movement, behavior, and words of a person, and therefore may usually have the urge to help everyone whom they come into contact with. At the same time, they would also want to clean up all the things and people that appear in their lives.

As they continue to raise their spiritual consciousness and constantly heal themselves, this impulse to help everyone by intervening will change, because they will see and experience the deeper truth. The truth behind the existence of the problems, another deeper layer of truth about negative emotions and problems, like anger, frustrations, hatefulness, sadness, etc. They will also start to see how the problems of others are related to themselves from within, and start to work inwards, do self-healing and continue to raise their spiritual consciousness.

At this time, most will also find out the importance of knowing themselves and loving themselves, as well as the truth about how they can help others around them and see the true connections of everyone in the world.

When the spiritual consciousness continues to be raised and healed, they will begin to discover the problems that they once thought are in fact, not problems, but only learning experiences. At this time, some people may still have the urge to want to provide suggestions and ideas for those who are in a certain life’s challenge, but most people will not want to intervene in other people’s affairs like what happened during the initial phase of awakening, wanting to point out other people’s mistakes and shortcomings, thinking that they know the truth and can change the life of others. What they think and know at this time is “This soul needs to learn “this” to grow in “this” way”, and understands that if they intervene in another person’s life, they will create a Karmic relationship with this person, and may in turn cause this person to have to repeat the challenge that they wanted to go through. That is, repeating the painful situations for others all over again, and bringing those painful situations upon themselves.

When spiritual consciousness is constantly being raised, and healing is done, they will begin to realize the truth of all the truths that they thought they had already known before. At this time, they will understand why one has a certain point of view at some point in time. They now, will not point out the shortcomings or mistakes of others like before, because they understand that whatever happened are justifiable to these people at this point in time, and there are no rights or wrongs. They will also understand what it means by being the most authentic self, and what is their most true authentic self.

While continuing to raise spiritual consciousness and healing, they will realize that all “truths” that they see are only what they are allowed to receive, and that there are deeper truths that they do not yet know of, and thus, true humility is born from within. They will also understand that everyone is the same, just at different stages or places, receiving different aspects of the truth. They will also come to understand why certain ideas are born within certain people at certain time.

At this stage, they no longer want to convince anyone to see their truth, and will not give up their own truth just to agree with others. They will not think that the truth they see is the only truth just because they think they are more spiritually aware than another, and they will not put themselves down to cater to anyone either. This is also the moment when their consciousness learns about respect. To respect oneself and others.

Next, they will get to understand the truth behind the lesson of each individual’s problem. They can now understand that whatever the problem or lesson is for each person, that is the mission and purpose of the person’s, and the same for themselves. They start to feel proud of the soul, and touched by the lesson that the soul has chosen. They will also be grateful for every one that appears in their own lives. Whether these people trigger their negative emotions or are good to them, because they know that whoever appears in their lives, are those who truly love them. At this time, they also learnt about true Love.

Most people at this stage, will not be affected by the actions of others, nor will they attempt to explain or want to convince anyone. They know their roles, purpose and mission with clarity and are more than willing to serve and contribute to the world, and to do what they came to do.

Note: Spiritual ascension and healing processes are different from person to person. Although, the overall big picture looks the same, no two people will be the same in their own experiences. This article shares the most likely phenomenon that most people will experience during spiritual ascension and healing process, and serves only as a reference not a mandatory rule.

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May 2019 Energy Update

Energy Update – May 2019

As I was channeling for the energy of May 2019, I saw the vision of a basket of flowers, and that later expanded to a field of flowers. And as I wanted to go in further for more details, I saw the word “Daisies“. Daisies are a symbol of innocence, purity and positive perspectives. They also hold meaning of like-minded people coming together.

This is the season of Spring for many, and this Spring comes in terms of the energetic sense, where you get to see the beauty of flowers blooming around you. Raise your awareness further, to observe and see the beauty that is already around you, and those that you have created, and creating. This is the season where you create beauty wherever you go, and see the beauty around you wherever you go.

The blooming of flowers in this month, signifies the product of what you have planted, nurtured, and patiently waited for. This is the moment to immerse yourself in this beauty, and celebrate your achievement. This is the time to acknowledge what you have accomplished, be it a baby step that you thought you have taken, this baby step is a leap in the Universe. At the same time, keep yourself in balance and do not yet go head over heels, as the fruits are yet to come. Yes, there are more celebrations to come! More harvest for you! BUT this is still the celebration that you deserved for being patient through the month of April. This is your reward for utilising your inner strength in ways for your highest good.

Now, beauty brings peace and happiness, so let yourself immerse in this beauty, and breath in this beauty while you continue to manifests and nurture your desires. Learning still, to go with the flow, taking the necessary actions from the nudges of your intuition, while enjoying yourself in the moment. Let yourself go free, let yourself be in peace this May. Release all attachments that you may have, be it in your desires or your past. This is true freedom when you are free of attachments.

As you surrender it all, you allow yourself to return to your purest state, you allow yourself to return to the innocence that you had and that helps you to see with clarity to what is happening for you and around you. And of course, back to the joy that you had when you discover the love and miracles that are happening for you.

This month, will also be the month where you get to meet many like-minded people, and again, only if you allow it to happen. Make space for these people in your life, and be open to receive them in acceptance. For many, these people are whom you have been manifesting, so do not block yourself now that they are coming in for you. For a few of you, this signifies you coming together with your guides and angels. Yay, this means you will gain a stronger connection with them, and meet them (if you have not yet). There are also another group where you get to meet your Angels in human forms. So, now is the moment to release all attachments not in alignment with you, to make space for the miracles to happen.

Spring means spend more time in Nature, spend more time in the greeneries. If you have difficulties finding such places around you, then you create this beauty around you. This is what this month is about too, or have you forgotten what was mentioned in the beginning of the video. Creating beauty wherever you go.

Shall end here now. I hope what I have shared in this video can inspire you. Sending you blessings with love and light.

Energy Update – April 2019

This message is for the Month of April 2019 and also timeless, whenever you are drawn to listening, in whichever time or space that you are in.

Be patient and plant your seeds. Nurture and watch your seeds grow. This is the time to learn to listen to the subtle voice within, and to take actions with trust as you nurture your seeds. This is the time to learn to go with the flow, as you take actions with trust. This is the time to be patient, and trust that all that you are doing, be it resting, relaxing, staying still, or moving forward are guided. You are always where you need to be. As you start getting restless, know that this is the subtle voice within you, trying to get your attention to connect. As you start getting impatient and feeling frustrated, wanting to take big movements or make any major actions to push yourself forward, to see the results that you desire immediately, know that this is coming from your ego, trying to distract you from the subtle voice within. The message from your higher self brings peace, and the ego self brings frustration and negative emotions through.

Remember, you always have a choice. This is a world of freewill. You can decide to listen to the subtle voice within and move forward at the pace for your highest good with peace OR you can push yourself against the flow, to want to get to the results of your desire with the frustrations and pain that you create within, through the voice of your ego and feeling disappointed with the results again and again. This is YOUR choice.

This month, as you move forward with patient and the pace for your highest good, you learn to surrender the need to control, and you learn to surrender your low self-esteem. Through this, you gain the profound wisdom of going with the flow, and attracting all that you truly need and desire. This month, you learn about the truth of how the Universe work, through the knowledge of how you work within that you have learnt last month.

By now, through the message I have shared so far, you may have at the same time receive the downloaded information from the Universe too on the overall challenge of this month, that is, the temptation to act on impulse and advance, as with the energy of Aries in the month of April. Make use of the courage that you will gain this month to push yourself to surrender to change and surrender to the unknown but, use the knowledge wisdom that you have gained the last month about yourself to move and surrender with wisdom. You have grown and advanced yet another level.

Some people will also take this time for more release work that have been buried for the longest. Some of you may now wonder, how having gone through a rebirth, there are still pain buried and not released. We are living in a life cycle, with each rebirth, we shed a layer of “skin”, and with each renewal, we get closer and nearer to within. So make use of the courage energy this month, to help you release this new found “long-time” pain that was buried. There is no need to feel guilt or think that you have to suppress this emotion or pretend that it does not exist, and thinking you “should” not be feeling this negative emotion having come so far. Only through feeling and releasing this emotion, can you truly release it all from within.

This month, you will also see a lot of bursts of new creations and especially on artworks that bring through the ideas of passion and love. If you felt compelled, or maybe even just a flash of thought to create an art piece, do so. Even if you do not have idea of how to start, start anyway. For example, you felt like painting an artwork, but you have no idea what to paint, what color to use, just pour out all the colors in the palette, and you will find yourself moving, just get started on the first stroke of brush through your intuition, that is, place your brush filled with the paint anywhere you felt like it, and let your hand move with your intuition. If you have been practicing to trust your intuition, you may have already now know what I am trying to share, that is, you will one day realise the meaning of your artwork. And you will realise there is information being brought through, through this artwork of yours. Whatever we do, think or feel in this world, are bringing us information for our highest good.

I hope what I have shared here can help you get inspired to what you can do or how you can bring yourself through the month of April 2019, or the month forward that you are listening to this message. Know in peace that somewhere on earth, I am sending you peace with love and light. Thank you.

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Energy Update – March 2019

This is the time for the flower to bloom. As the seed was planted way before, and you watching this seed grow, and growing with it as it turns into a bud earlier in Feb 2019, now is the time to watch this bud bloom. Let your path unfold for you, just like the way the bud blooms.

This is the time to take some long awaited actions, for many have been too fearful in the initial stage of rebirth, walking with vulnerability, and fearing the unknown of what’s to come. There have been some serious procrastination going on in the short month of Feb 2019, and this is all perfectly normal. There is no need to feel any guilt, nor do you have to feel time wasted, because that was your decision to put things on hold, that was your decision to reconsider if you prefer things to go back to the old. And of course, the Divine is not going to let you turn back, and you will be finding all sorts of resistance when you try to turn back in fear. Do not see the darkness or the negativities as bad, they are signs your Divine are sending you to stop, and reconsider your choice. To take a break, and let yourself adapt to the new energy that you are still afraid of, and not used to. The confident and courageous self, that know how to love and respect yourself. Because you have not aligned with this energy, and the uncomfortability is perfectly fine and the way that it would have been…Remember you are no longer a victim.

Even if you think you have not done anything productive, even when you think you have been stagnant. Even if you think you are still stuck in between to move forward or move backward, Know that you are not remaining in the same spot as you thought. You have rose from the previous level of consciousness, you have gained another level of wisdom knowledge, and this new insight of wisdom is helping you to see the path in front of you, and that is why you are being indecisive right now. For some, you may even think the alternative is not even a choice to be made in the first place, because you are seeing things from the surface. No matter what you think, you have to dig further, to look beyond the situation.

Some of you may be thinking that you have thought things through thoroughly, and have analysed the situation many times. This message come as a reminder that you are trapping yourself in a box, and this is now a time to pull yourself out to look at things from a higher perspective. And how do you know if you are not looking at the situation “correctly”? Some of you may ask. You feel helpless, you feel lost, you feel stuck, you feel fear, etc….All these negative feelings, the frustrations, are your Divine team trying to tell you, you need to calm down and relook into whatever you think you are analysing on. They are trying to point you to the right direction. You have come to an impasse.

So during this earlier part of the month, this is a time for you to really rest and calm your mind, and take the chance to rework on your path again. It is not that your path is wrong, but there are some details that you may need to rework on. There are resistance energy going on within you, and this is causing you to not able to see what is obvious in front of you. You have to learn to go with the flow. Haven’t you done it till now? So why the resistance now when the bud is about to bloom? When it is time to rest, REST completely, throw everything aside, and take good care of your body, mind and soul. And when inspirations come, take actions immediately without any delay, without any doubts. There was an intense energy of information and inspirational actions in the last month of February 2019, and if you had been overwhelmed, then take time to calm your mind down, and seek inner peace to digest the information download. Let your soul organise the information and bring it to your mind with clarity on the next immediate action to take.

For those who have moved on with faith and trust, you are going to see some real results, and you will be glad you did not back down with fear and give up. The Divine thank you for your faith and hard work. They want to reward you and they want you to open and receive their love, as with everyone else. Keep moving the way you are going, start taking actual actions as your plans are good to go. You are also going receive rewards from your past actions. Raise your energy now to receive.

With the overwhelming intense energy in the past few days, if you have been feeling too energised to sleep at night, know that all these are because you are being too distracted in the daytime. So take time at night, to calm and declutter your mind, or move your body, exercise. I hope these suggestions can help you receive the downloaded information with more clarity.

Energy Update – February 2019

This is the month where many of us have been reborn and are now of a clean slate. Most of us have been going through a transformation cycle, and some longer than the others. Some of us have already ended this transformation cycle earlier in January. No matter, we have all come to the same place, and from now, we define ourselves. We are who we said we are. If you are still having memories of the past running around in your head, and leading your emotions, pull yourself out, and observe from where these emotions truly come from, there may be some unfinished job to do from your end. Clear them, and move on, and make the conscious effort to stop yourself from engaging with the past. You are now in a total new beginning, the past can no longer define you, nor can it determine where you go next. Look at what is happening in your head from a higher perspective, and you will realise, you have the power to either choose to connect your emotions to these memories or disconnect and start living in the present.

Clean slate meaning you no longer hold any karmic cycle that you had created, you no longer have any past healing to deal with. Whatever that is going to happen in your life, will be what your energy determines from now. So take care of your thoughts and emotions, dear child. Now think and observe your own thoughts and emotions of now, are you addicted to feeling negative? Are you addicted to feeling depressed? Do you think by being depressed and dark, you get more inspirations? Do you think by feeling anger, you gain more compassion? All these memories that you hold, that had brought you success, no longer serve you. They no longer serve you the way they had before. You have outgrown the past, you no longer need them to help you grow and move forward. So let the past stay in the past. Accept this change of thinking in you, accept this change of looking at things within you. This change is for your highest good. As with every ending of a cycle, as with every changes, there will be the existence of resistance. This is the resistance from within, reflected onto those around you, trying to hold you back.

Allow those who no longer align with you to leave. Do not feel guilt, do not feel unwilling at this closure of relationship. Nobody is permanent in your life, except you. And that lead us to the importance of self-love. As you start to embrace this change in you, you embrace the change in others, and allow for others to embrace the change in you. Do you see a connection here? Do you receive another level of understanding on the message “Everything starts with you”?

This month, with Valentines’ day coming, the energy of Love will be more intense than ever on Earth. Remember when you try to please another, first take care of your own needs. Take yourself on a good date. Whisper sweet nothings to yourself, be it in your head or in front of a mirror. This is not silly, you are a beauty, and you deserve love and romantic gestures from yourself as much as any other person. If you have been following my channel or any other channels on spirituality, you would have already realise the effectiveness of affirmations, and start to include them in your daily life.

At this time, many of the starseeds may also receive inspirations to create beauty, and messages on what a beauty you truly are. More importantly, being at a clean slate also means you are at the most powerful stage of manifesting, as your focus will be intense, and you get to write your life from now.

Bless you dear child. You are now free. Trust and have faith in yourself.

As you start becoming you

As you start becoming you – Energy Update

Hello Everyone,

So I thought to share more of what I’ve received for the year and what it means for us, people whose energy resonates with mine, more aligned with me, and as I was receiving the information, I got this message that this energy update is also for you out there anytime, you are watching this video or listening to this podcast, regardless of the published date. The message and guidance here is timeless, and is relevant for you in your current cycle, no matter which year or space you are in, in the moment of NOW. And so the title of this information has been changed from Year 2019 energy update Part II to As you start becoming you – energy update.

YEAR 2019

As I was saying, this year or this cycle is about you, discovering and starting to learn to use the power and energy that you have reclaimed and replenished from last year or last cycle, it is about you regaining your confidence, surrendering your low self-esteem, surrendering the need for approvals, and surrendering the fear of showing your true self. It’s about you discovering YOU, and on the way to becoming YOU.

As you begin to journey inwards, you will discover the profound power that you have reclaimed within you, and will start off to learn to use that power. And as you start using this inner power, you will remember who you are and what you can do.

As you start on this journey to discover and being YOU, and take the first step towards doing what you came here to do, while with your natural abilities and inner power, you will of course, again be faced with resistance. And as you have already guessed or been through before, resistance from those around you, especially, those who were so used to having your energy, your love and your attention. This time, they can feel the difference in you, as there was a Global energetic upgrades, so whether or not you have took obvious actions to leave them, they know something is changing from now.

Now some of you may be wondering if these people are receiving the energetic upgrades too, why are they then still not awakened, why are they then still not aware of the truth, why are they then still indulging in the negative cycles.

Well, imagine we are playing a game with levels to clear, you were at level 5 and them at level 1, as you advance to level 10, they advance to level 5. You see, you have worked to clear the levels, one level at a time, and they have to work through that too. They cannot jump from stage 1 to 10 to meet you where you are, for they have their own clearance and healing to do. Patience is required in all things.

These people are going through what you had went through, they are afraid of the change in your relationship with them, and this is not personal. As you know and understand it, this is their inner fear, their own fear of change. They do not want an end to any thing or an end to any relationship that they are so used to having in their lives. They are in resistant mode and that made it difficult for them to receive the wisdom of truth.
These people are not willing to receive any new relationships that are more aligned to their energies. They are also afraid to be left behind by you, to be left in the darkness alone without your light, without your loving energy. As such, they will try all ways and throw all kinds of threats at you, to make sure you stay behind with them. They will try all means to make you feel bad and guilty. Throwing shades at you. You have been there before, Dear one, do not give in to these threats, do not feel guilty. For as you rise, they rise with you, because they have no choice but to rise to catch up with you, to prevent the gap between you and them to get wider. So, you have to go first. This is for the highest of all.

Focus on yourself, and you will realise your value, and your worth. You will gain much clarity, and thus, make better decisions for yourself and everyone around you.

Love yourself, dear one, for no one else will, if you do not. The people around you, only love themselves, and want the best for themselves, not you. What they say or do, are all for themselves to gain satisfaction to control and manipulate you. They think they will be happy (or so they thought), if they can control you, and they always claim that they are doing this for you, or for what the society thinks is the right way to do and to be. They do not yet realise what they are doing to you, is creating more karma debt between you and them. And since you are awakened and aware, do not allow this Karma debt to pile up. Stop this Karmic cycle from your end. YOU can do it, and you have the right to do it.

Remember this Dear one, this year, is your year. You have every right to do anything for your highest and greatest good. Remember, HIGHEST and GREATEST good. Feeling guilt is not for your highest good, it will also create Karma debt between you and those who are making you feel this guilt, and you have to come back here in another lifetime again, to go through the same until they repaid you what they gave, OR it may happen within this lifetime, and until then, you will not be free, or feel free. So choose to let them go now. They may not see it, but you do. They will later see the truth too, at Divine timing, and will be grateful that you did not let them create the karmic debt. Show your power, dear one. Let your wisdom lead you, and share your wisdom with love.

Know that you are safe, and you are protected. Nobody and nothing can hurt you now. Only you can. So dear one, be brave now. Tap into your inner strength, drop your shield of defence, and draw healthy boundaries.

Be careful of how and who you share your love and wisdom with. Always share with love. You are protected. You are safe. Take actions knowing it will be a success, and it will. You are a child of magic, you are beautiful.

What Law of Attraction taught me II

Hello everyone,

Thank you again for your kind support and love. Thank you for your follows, subscribes, likes and share on my social media and blog postings. I truly appreciate your love, and that is also why I am sharing more of what I receive from the Universe.

Previously, I have written a post on What the law of attraction has taught me about my daily life and surroundings, and today will be a continuation in these common daily life examples that everyone can relate to, and to help more to identify and understand the work of Law of Attraction, in order to adjust and heal from our issues and make Law of Attraction work for us, the way we would love to.

Just as what everyone already know, the law of attraction can help us achieve our desires, but that doesn’t mean that if we don’t understand the law of attraction or don’t learn to apply it, it doesn’t exist or is not working for us.

If you have read the article that I’ve posted earlier about the lessons, law of attraction has taught me, you will come to understand that the law of attraction is actually the natural law of the universe. It is constantly working and is always happening for everyone and around everyone. Just like how the sun is always rising from the east and setting in the west.

And many times, where there is “blame” and “negative emotion”, there is a reminder. A reminder that you need healing, and the issue that needs to be healed will be projected on the subject of the “blame”. This is how when you have a certain issue within you, you attract someone of the same to you, whether you are aware of your own issues or not.

For example, A very common scene we see today.
Someone often complains about others for complaining, and the irony is that most of the complaints are about others complaining. Do you see the work of Law of Attraction here?

Another example,
Someone often said that a certain person is not a good friend, because he/she do not lend a helping hand to those in need and at the same time, complained about another taking advantage of others, and he/she will never be like that. However, he/she is not aware that he/she is often taking advantage of others in the name of “friends in need”. Do you see the work of Law of Attraction now from the two examples?

Third example,
Someone often complains about another who does not know how to care for friends, and is very selfish. And the reason was because this other person did not take good care of him/her, and he/she felt neglected and not taken care of, without even realising that the person was trying to help others on another matter. Do you see the work of Law of Attraction and the damage of lack of self-love here?

There are many people and even ourselves may have characteristics very similar to these examples. The issue in the examples are the same and very obvious. The main subject in the examples are casting their own shadow aspects onto the people they are complaining about, and of which, these people whom they are complaining about are bringing information on what they need to heal to them.

This is the work of the law of attraction, where likes attract likes. So if you encounter something or someone that triggers your emotions, you may want to raise your awareness, and carefully observe yourself, and understand your own issues, and allow yourself to heal from this.

By doing so, you can bring in positive energy, disconnect from the negative cycles, and create good cycle of karma. And from here, you will no longer attract those that you complain about into your life again.

The reason to raise awareness to the issues within us is just to heal, and not to prove that we are bad or evil. There is no need to blame yourself or feel guilty. This is also not to prove that the things or people that you are complaining about are right in their way. What you need to know from this lesson, is to gain the direction of adjustment and healing.

Self-blame or Guilt will only allow negative energy to infiltrate more into our own energy field, which is definitely not what we want. What we truly want is healing and adjusting ourselves, so that we will no longer have any negative emotions and reactions to these events that bring us misery and made us uncomfortable. We will then no longer attract the people or events that we complained about into our lives.

Read about how the Law of Attraction is showing that you are a frog living in a well.

What Law of Attraction taught me

 

One of the Laws of Universe, the Law of Attraction – where things of the same are gathered together, likes attract likes, mentioned things of the same energy will be attracted to each other.

Now observe and think carefully, are you and your group of close friends like-minded? Everyone’s preferences, thoughts, personalities, including feelings and opinions about things and events are similar, and that is what brings you together. This is what “Birds of the same feather flock together” means, Likes attract likes, the Law of Attraction happening around you and for you.

This will also lead to you thinking that for one to be different and inconsistent from you and those around you, they belong to rare species, and you may even think that its impossible, or it must be “fake”, simply because you have not yet encounter such a specie or situation.

Everyone knows very well that the world is vast, and there are thousands of different types of people, and everything is possible. However, if there is a person, or thing, or event that enters into one’s life and disrupt the routine or what have been familiar, thus, creating inconsistencies or dramatic changes in life, then one will have a strong reaction and it usually is resistance. This reaction comes from the unwillingness to accept changes, and the unwillingness to accept that he/she does not yet know and understand the world as well as he/she has thought to be.

For example, a group of friends like to hang out together to complain, complaining about other friends, colleagues, or supervisors, or family members, complaining about everything under the sun. One day, a newcomer joins this group, and he/she does not like to complain at all, and does not respond to the complaints of this group. This resulted in the group to start complaining about this new friend because they did not get the energy from the person and the attention they wanted. They think that this new person is too proud, self-righteous, and very “fake”, he/she is simply wearing a mask, trying to act like a diva. Because this group of friends who are so used to “complaining”, and thus, attract others of the same energy to be around them, they have never seen someone who will not complain before. If someone is different from them and does not complain, this person must not be authentic. They will also feel that this person has a conspiracy within his/her bones and they are afraid that this person will “betray” them by sharing with others that they are a group of complainers.

Another example, some people grew up in an environment where gratitude does not exist. Thus, they think it will be impossible to have a person who is sincere in being grateful in this world. At this time, if such a person exist in their circle of life, they would immediately judge this person as “fake”, wearing a mask to hide his/her true authentic self. This is simply because they are not willing to believe that there is love in the world, they are even less willing to believe that they have problems in believing in love and accepting love.

From the two brief examples above, these are the people who are like frogs at the bottom of the well. They simply think that what they have not seen or experienced, do not exist. This is also a self-righteous thinking.

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