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Fate – Feng Shui, Bazi and Heavenly / Divine Timing

Do you believe that you can control your fate by preparing yourself with adjustments of your environment through Feng Shui knowledge, and adjustments of your personality through understanding of your Bazi, for the heavenly divine timing of your gifts?

Find out how each of these factors can affect your life destiny, and how you can get ready to receive your abundance in life below.

Bazi – 人

(The date and time of your birth that determines your life’s story and personality)
Bazi is like a template that is already written for you when you were born. It is to help you understand your life’s story and an opportunity for you to take control of your life’s destiny. To be able to read your Bazi and understand your weaknesses and strengths, you are already on your road to success. Make good use of this opportunity given to you by Universe to learn your lessons and overcome the challenges, and start receiving the abundance that you deserve.

Feng Shui – 地

(The geographical information of your environment)
Everything happens for a reason. Every trees, every flowers, every grass and even weeds appear at a specific location, at a specific timing around you, signifies a part of your life’s story and this is synchronicity. These are messages and signs from the Universe to you. By understanding your surroundings and being able to read the signs, you can adjust them to promote positive flow of energies, and change your life’s story. Instead of turning a blind eye to the signs and rejecting Universe’s love and the gifts that are waiting for you. Open your arms and stretch out to receive, start acknowledging the messages from Universe, know that you are loved and protected, accept that you deserve to be warned of adversities and reach out to receive abundance.

Heavenly / Divine timing – 天 (Date and Time)

The Universe determines when and what should come to you. Once you have adjusted your Feng Shui and adjusted your thoughts and attitudes per your Bazi, you will find that what you desire will flow to you like an endless stream. Nothing is restricted by Time and Space, only you. There are no limits in life, you create your own limits.

Start sending out your desires and messages to the Universe by showing it you are ready to receive abundance, with adjustments of your Feng Shui, thoughts and attitudes.

Observe behaviours and events around you

It is not what you did that is causing the events happening to and around you. It is that they are going to happen and the universe is trying to warn you through the signs and symbols around you which you may not be aware. This is synchronicity.

Below are 3 examples for your references:

True story I:
A friend wanted to place an item at the top of the bed at his head area. Immediately, we knew that he is having some issues with his head. True enough, he was having headaches of late due to some stress he is facing. He has unconsciously reflected a message sent by the universe and he is not aware. We advised him to shift the furniture away and now he is free from the headache that has been plaguing him for some time.

True story II:
Another friend placed a box of water in his bedroom thinking that water is “wealth” as he wants to gain more wealth. Due to the area that he placed his water, he ended up getting retrenched. The reason for him to place the water at the wrong place is because he is unconsciously reflecting a message sent by the universe and he is not aware.

True story III:
Mr Lim hung up some decorations on the wall during the festive season, and Mrs Lim thought it was grandmother who hung it up. This shows a message that the grandmother will have some incidents happening relating to her legs and joints in the near future. True enough, a week after, grandmother fell down and hurt her legs. Luckily, it was not serious. Had Mr Lim not remove the decorations immediately when we told him to, things could be worse. It is because that this incident is going to happen that Mr and Mrs Lim have unconsciously received the message and are not aware.

Therefore, observe what is happening around you, including your own behaviours and thoughts, as well as others’. Become aware of your surroundings and you will find synchronicity all around you. Prepare yourself for what is coming up in your life so that you can grasp the opportunities and avoid adversities.

You can get assistance from us with our Feng Shui service to identify the messages around you.


Synchronicity : There are no coincidences

The term Synchronicity is coined by Carl Jung, to express a concept that belongs to him. It is about acausal connection of two or more psycho-physic phenomena.

“Synchronicity is the coming together of inner and outer events in a way that cannot be explained by cause and effect and that is meaningful to the observer.”
– Carl Jung

This concept was inspired to him by a patient’s case. The patient dreamt of a golden scarab – cetonia aurata the previous night before the psychotherapy session, and at the moment she was describing to him her dream, a real insect hits against Carl Jung’s window. Jung caught it and discovered surprisingly that it was a golden-green colored scarab; a very rare presence at that period in the particular place.

In his book Synchronicity, Carl Jung wrote: “Synchronicity is no more baffling or mysterious than the discontinuities of physics. It is only the ingrained belief in the sovereign power of causality that creates intellectual difficulties and makes it appear unthinkable that causeless events exist or could ever exist. But if they do, then we must regard them as creative acts, as the continuous creation of a pattern that exists from all eternity, repeats itself sporadically, and is not derivable from any known antecedents.”

Synchronicity is the law of universe. We are all connected by unknown forces in the universe. A significant coincidence is when the universe is talking to you. When the universe “speaks”, listen. Listening and being ready to receive creates amazing synchronicity. Look carefully for opportunities. Be a participant.

Synchronicity is like a mirror, whatever you believe will be reflected back at you. If you do not believe, then you cannot see it. Your brain would not process information that it does not expect to see. If you agree with the law of synchronicity then you connect more deeply and send out a stronger ripple effect of your message, which creates more synchronicity and coincidences in your favor. This is because you are in harmony with what you seek.

The more deeply you connect, the more synchronicity you will experience. Be open to what you receive, this often turns out to be better than what you expected. Synchronicity tends to happen when it is needed. Be responsive to them, put your logical self on hold. Pay attention to your inner feelings.

When you predict an event you automatically increase the chances of it happening. But when you really believe something is going to happen, then you create certainty. By believing you add psychic energy to the event. Believing is the hardest part. If you can overcome this, you become invincible.

According to the law of physics, energy and matter cannot be created or destroyed. Your thoughts are energy and thus, can never be destroyed. In physics, “The Observer Effect“ is when your mind observes something, you change that something. Therefore, You make the future happen. You are the creator of your destiny.

Synchronicity, applies to phenomena from the area of parapsychology, prevision and premonition, toI Ching, to astrology and many other borderline fields. It is also present in psychotherapy. Several psychoanalysts noted certain strange coincidences in which their patients received information about them by extra-sensory ways. This is also part of Metaphysics of what we know today.


What is Metaphysics?

Metaphysics is the foundation of philosophy that deals with the first principles of things, including abstract concepts such as “being”, “knowing”, “identity”, “time”, and “space”. It attempts to clarify the fundamental notions by which people understand the world, e.g., The existence, objects’ properties, Time and Space, Cause and Effect, and all possibilities.

The basic nature of the body, mind and emotions is related to how we perceive the physical world. This can now be measured and observed using instruments and technology that could not be imagined in Aristotle’s time or any of the other big names (Confucius, Mencius, Kant) in philosophy.

Modern days Quantum mechanics and quantum physics have added new dimensions to what we now call metaphysical science, providing us with tested and proven models that demonstrate how our physical world is not really physical.

Neuroscience and consciousness studies have shown how the world we experience as physical is created by our thought and feeling in the mind. Worldwide endeavors such as The Intention Experiment and The Global Coherence Initiative are demonstrating the impact of human thought and emotion upon our planet and each other.

Chinese Metaphysics

Chinese metaphysics is a constituent part of Taoism, a philosophy based on Qi, the energy – the principle of the Yin & Yang balance and the theory of 5 elements. Therefore, the ancient Chinese sciences like Feng Shui, Chinese Astrology, Face Reading, Qi Gong, Tai Chi, Traditional Chinese Medicine (TCM) as well as I Ching divination all represent parts of the very same knowledge.

For thousands of years the Chinese have been observing nature, researching how it affects the man and his life. The Chinese understand that our destiny consists of the following 3 parts, The Heaven, The Earth and The Human. (天, 地, 人)

  1. Heaven Luck (天) is what the universe gives us at the time of our birth. It is the inscription of our life path, our potentials as well as our life lessons and destiny.
  2. Earth Luck (地) is represented by our surrounding environment, the energy that is generated by the landscape of the Earth.
  3. Human Luck (人) is the vital energy, the life force within every human being.

A human being can affect his or her own vital energy by self-cultivation, healthy lifestyle, positive thinking, meditation and rising of own awareness. Feng Shui (风水) knowledge and the understanding of nature’s energy can influence the Earth Fortune. The only Luck that cannot be affected by human is Heaven Fortune, representing a third of our destiny.

The ancient Chinese astrologers developed the knowledge of I Ching that can be applied as a tool to foresee the events in one’s life, identify the repetitive causes, determine and locate favorable periods for action and also discover and unveil one’s talents and potential.

Chinese Astrology is NOT about fortune telling, it is counseling aiming to lead us to a better understanding of (one’s) life, life situations and life lessons.

Indian Metaphysics


Sāṃkhya is an ancient system of Indian philosophy based on a dualism involving the ultimate principles of consciousness and matter. Its method was most influential on the development of Early Buddhism.

The Sāmkhya is an enumerationist philosophy whose epistemology accepts three of six pramanas (proofs) as the only reliable means of gaining knowledge. These include pratyakṣa (perception), anumāṇa (inference) and śabda (āptavacana, word/testimony of reliable sources).

Samkhya is known for its theory of guṇas (qualities, innate tendencies). Guṇa, it states, are of three types:

  1. Sattva being good, compassionate, illuminating, positive, and constructive.
  2. Rajas is one of activity, chaotic, passion, impulsive, potentially good or bad.
  3. Tamas being the quality of darkness, ignorance, destructive, lethargic, negative.

Everything, all life forms and human beings, have these three guṇas, but in different proportions. The interplay of these guṇas defines the character of someone or something, of nature and determines the progress of life.

The Samkhya theory of guṇas was widely discussed, developed and refined by various schools of Indian philosophies, including Buddhism.


Realization of the nature of Self-identity is the principal object of the Vedanta system of Indian metaphysics. In the Upanishads, self-consciousness is not the first-person indexical self-awareness or the self-awareness which is self-reference without identification, and also not the self-consciousness which as a kind of desire is satisfied by another self-consciousness. It is Self-realisation; the realisation of the Self consisting of consciousness that leads all else.

Part of this article is extracted from Wikipedia.