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You may be attracting hypocrisy into your life

This article only serves as a reference and does not mean all situations must be the same. You are guided here for a reason, so tune inwards to hear your truth. Dare to dive deeper and face your inner truth.

We always hear people complaining about how others are being “fake” and how they have been “betrayed” by certain hypocritical person. They do not understand why these people are being attracted into their lives and that they felt angry when some wise men tell them that it is them who attract such situations, without first having the patience to understand why.

If you know clearly what you hate, what makes you frustrated, what makes you angry, then congratulations! Because you found the direction to what you need to heal. You just need to admit and accept this vulnerability of yours, the most authentic you, and love this side of yours, you will then see the truth behind this “hate/anger/frustration”.

Negative emotions like “hate/anger/frustration”, are usually protective walls of self-esteem, but the word “hate/angry” tends to come from those who regard themselves as victims. Because if I say “I hate you”, then I am above you, not because you abandoned me, but because I despise you. I am more Noble than you so whatever you do will be deemed by me as beneath me.

For example, when you think others did not welcome you into their group activities, would you think that you are being outcast and they are trying to form cliques or reflecting on whether you have done something wrong? If someone doesn’t share a secret with you but shares secrets with others around you, do you think they are being hypocritical and are creating cliques?

You are more likely to be hurt from such behavior and felt unloved, and this give the “little devil” within the chance to misguide you to think that the others are trying to create problems, and that you”hate” and “despise” them. These negative words are in fact “cover-ups” for defense of low self-esteem.

This is also the reason why the so-called “betrayal” and “hypocritical” events are being brought into your life. Because you have not shown your true self. This way of concealing yourself is what attracts people who also conceal themselves. Do not forget the Law of Karma, you will always receive at least three times of what you give out. So what you receive and feel will be magnified.

And of course, there will be some people who will think that they are the ones with the problems themselves. But whether you feel that someone else has a problem or feel that you have a problem, there shows a direction to be healed. There is no right or wrong here, only you do not have your own responsibilities and have no confidence in yourself. This is not enough to understand yourself, not enough to love yourself.

So instead of working out on a solution, do you then think that you hate them or is angry with them, and they are the ones with the problems? Whether you think that someone else has a problem or that you have a problem, there exists the direction to be healed.

When you love yourself, you will understand how to treat yourself well, and therefore create empathy and treat others in the same way too. Loving yourself, will help you understand the way you treat others and yourself will attract people who will treat you in the same way, resulting in you to choosing to convey your true self in the way of love. If you love yourself, you will also respect yourself enough to not let those who are not aligned with your energy to affect you, and you will not try to convince them in anyway to think like you, for you respect them too.

Some people are afraid to choose Love, and do not believe in sharing their authentic self through the way of Love. They think by choosing Love is weak, and choosing Love is being hypocritical. BUT, choosing Love is not hypocrisy. Hypocrisy is an excuse for people who wants to defend their self-esteem in a negative way. These people usually have low confidence in themselves and have very low self-esteem.

Obviously, this shows the importance of self Love.

Read more examples of Law of Attraction: [What Law of Attraction taught me II]

Note: This article only wants to share the idea that negative emotions are not problems but guidance to your healing. The examples shared here are only provided as references to help inspire you to receive your own guidance. If you are facing with similar issues and would like help with your healing, you can consider seeking an assistance from a healer or go for our Spiritual Healing service.

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What Spiritual Ascension and Healing will bring you

In the early stages of awakening, most people will see the hidden problems behind every movement, behavior, and words of a person, and therefore may usually have the urge to help everyone whom they come into contact with. At the same time, they would also want to clean up all the things and people that appear in their lives.

In the early stages of awakening, most people will see the hidden problems behind every movement, behavior, and words of a person, and therefore may usually have the urge to help everyone whom they come into contact with. At the same time, they would also want to clean up all the things and people that appear in their lives.

As they continue to raise their spiritual consciousness and constantly heal themselves, this impulse to help everyone by intervening will change, because they will see and experience the deeper truth. The truth behind the existence of the problems, another deeper layer of truth about negative emotions and problems, like anger, frustrations, hatefulness, sadness, etc. They will also start to see how the problems of others are related to themselves from within, and start to work inwards, do self-healing and continue to raise their spiritual consciousness.

At this time, most will also find out the importance of knowing themselves and loving themselves, as well as the truth about how they can help others around them and see the true connections of everyone in the world.

When the spiritual consciousness continues to be raised and healed, they will begin to discover the problems that they once thought are in fact, not problems, but only learning experiences. At this time, some people may still have the urge to want to provide suggestions and ideas for those who are in a certain life’s challenge, but most people will not want to intervene in other people’s affairs like what happened during the initial phase of awakening, wanting to point out other people’s mistakes and shortcomings, thinking that they know the truth and can change the life of others. What they think and know at this time is “This soul needs to learn “this” to grow in “this” way”, and understands that if they intervene in another person’s life, they will create a Karmic relationship with this person, and may in turn cause this person to have to repeat the challenge that they wanted to go through. That is, repeating the painful situations for others all over again, and bringing those painful situations upon themselves.

When spiritual consciousness is constantly being raised, and healing is done, they will begin to realize the truth of all the truths that they thought they had already known before. At this time, they will understand why one has a certain point of view at some point in time. They now, will not point out the shortcomings or mistakes of others like before, because they understand that whatever happened are justifiable to these people at this point in time, and there are no rights or wrongs. They will also understand what it means by being the most authentic self, and what is their most true authentic self.

While continuing to raise spiritual consciousness and healing, they will realize that all “truths” that they see are only what they are allowed to receive, and that there are deeper truths that they do not yet know of, and thus, true humility is born from within. They will also understand that everyone is the same, just at different stages or places, receiving different aspects of the truth. They will also come to understand why certain ideas are born within certain people at certain time.

At this stage, they no longer want to convince anyone to see their truth, and will not give up their own truth just to agree with others. They will not think that the truth they see is the only truth just because they think they are more spiritually aware than another, and they will not put themselves down to cater to anyone either. This is also the moment when their consciousness learns about respect. To respect oneself and others.

Next, they will get to understand the truth behind the lesson of each individual’s problem. They can now understand that whatever the problem or lesson is for each person, that is the mission and purpose of the person’s, and the same for themselves. They start to feel proud of the soul, and touched by the lesson that the soul has chosen. They will also be grateful for every one that appears in their own lives. Whether these people trigger their negative emotions or are good to them, because they know that whoever appears in their lives, are those who truly love them. At this time, they also learnt about true Love.

Most people at this stage, will not be affected by the actions of others, nor will they attempt to explain or want to convince anyone. They know their roles, purpose and mission with clarity and are more than willing to serve and contribute to the world, and to do what they came to do.

Note: Spiritual ascension and healing processes are different from person to person. Although, the overall big picture looks the same, no two people will be the same in their own experiences. This article shares the most likely phenomenon that most people will experience during spiritual ascension and healing process, and serves only as a reference not a mandatory rule.

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As you start becoming you

As you start becoming you – Energy Update

Hello Everyone,

So I thought to share more of what I’ve received for the year and what it means for us, people whose energy resonates with mine, more aligned with me, and as I was receiving the information, I got this message that this energy update is also for you out there anytime, you are watching this video or listening to this podcast, regardless of the published date. The message and guidance here is timeless, and is relevant for you in your current cycle, no matter which year or space you are in, in the moment of NOW. And so the title of this information has been changed from Year 2019 energy update Part II to As you start becoming you – energy update.

YEAR 2019

As I was saying, this year or this cycle is about you, discovering and starting to learn to use the power and energy that you have reclaimed and replenished from last year or last cycle, it is about you regaining your confidence, surrendering your low self-esteem, surrendering the need for approvals, and surrendering the fear of showing your true self. It’s about you discovering YOU, and on the way to becoming YOU.

As you begin to journey inwards, you will discover the profound power that you have reclaimed within you, and will start off to learn to use that power. And as you start using this inner power, you will remember who you are and what you can do.

As you start on this journey to discover and being YOU, and take the first step towards doing what you came here to do, while with your natural abilities and inner power, you will of course, again be faced with resistance. And as you have already guessed or been through before, resistance from those around you, especially, those who were so used to having your energy, your love and your attention. This time, they can feel the difference in you, as there was a Global energetic upgrades, so whether or not you have took obvious actions to leave them, they know something is changing from now.

Now some of you may be wondering if these people are receiving the energetic upgrades too, why are they then still not awakened, why are they then still not aware of the truth, why are they then still indulging in the negative cycles.

Well, imagine we are playing a game with levels to clear, you were at level 5 and them at level 1, as you advance to level 10, they advance to level 5. You see, you have worked to clear the levels, one level at a time, and they have to work through that too. They cannot jump from stage 1 to 10 to meet you where you are, for they have their own clearance and healing to do. Patience is required in all things.

These people are going through what you had went through, they are afraid of the change in your relationship with them, and this is not personal. As you know and understand it, this is their inner fear, their own fear of change. They do not want an end to any thing or an end to any relationship that they are so used to having in their lives. They are in resistant mode and that made it difficult for them to receive the wisdom of truth.
These people are not willing to receive any new relationships that are more aligned to their energies. They are also afraid to be left behind by you, to be left in the darkness alone without your light, without your loving energy. As such, they will try all ways and throw all kinds of threats at you, to make sure you stay behind with them. They will try all means to make you feel bad and guilty. Throwing shades at you. You have been there before, Dear one, do not give in to these threats, do not feel guilty. For as you rise, they rise with you, because they have no choice but to rise to catch up with you, to prevent the gap between you and them to get wider. So, you have to go first. This is for the highest of all.

Focus on yourself, and you will realise your value, and your worth. You will gain much clarity, and thus, make better decisions for yourself and everyone around you.

Love yourself, dear one, for no one else will, if you do not. The people around you, only love themselves, and want the best for themselves, not you. What they say or do, are all for themselves to gain satisfaction to control and manipulate you. They think they will be happy (or so they thought), if they can control you, and they always claim that they are doing this for you, or for what the society thinks is the right way to do and to be. They do not yet realise what they are doing to you, is creating more karma debt between you and them. And since you are awakened and aware, do not allow this Karma debt to pile up. Stop this Karmic cycle from your end. YOU can do it, and you have the right to do it.

Remember this Dear one, this year, is your year. You have every right to do anything for your highest and greatest good. Remember, HIGHEST and GREATEST good. Feeling guilt is not for your highest good, it will also create Karma debt between you and those who are making you feel this guilt, and you have to come back here in another lifetime again, to go through the same until they repaid you what they gave, OR it may happen within this lifetime, and until then, you will not be free, or feel free. So choose to let them go now. They may not see it, but you do. They will later see the truth too, at Divine timing, and will be grateful that you did not let them create the karmic debt. Show your power, dear one. Let your wisdom lead you, and share your wisdom with love.

Know that you are safe, and you are protected. Nobody and nothing can hurt you now. Only you can. So dear one, be brave now. Tap into your inner strength, drop your shield of defence, and draw healthy boundaries.

Be careful of how and who you share your love and wisdom with. Always share with love. You are protected. You are safe. Take actions knowing it will be a success, and it will. You are a child of magic, you are beautiful.

Law of Attraction: It is always working whether you are aware or not

 

One of the Laws of Universe, the Law of Attraction – where things of the same are gathered together, likes attract likes, mentioned things of the same energy will be attracted to each other.

Now observe and think carefully, are you and your group of close friends like-minded? Everyone’s preferences, thoughts, personalities, including feelings and opinions about things and events are similar, and that is what brings you together. This is what “Birds of the same feather flock together” means, Likes attract likes, the Law of Attraction happening around you and for you.

This will also lead to you thinking that for one to be different and inconsistent from you and those around you, they belong to rare species, and you may even think that its impossible, or it must be “fake”, simply because you have not yet encounter such a specie or situation.

Everyone knows very well that the world is vast, and there are thousands of different types of people, and everything is possible. However, if there is a person, or thing, or event that enters into one’s life and disrupt the routine or what have been familiar, thus, creating inconsistencies or dramatic changes in life, then one will have a strong reaction and it usually is resistance. This reaction comes from the unwillingness to accept changes, and the unwillingness to accept that he/she does not yet know and understand the world as well as he/she has thought to be.

For example, a group of friends like to hang out together to complain, complaining about other friends, colleagues, or supervisors, or family members, complaining about everything under the sun. One day, a newcomer joins this group, and he/she does not like to complain at all, and does not respond to the complaints of this group. This resulted in the group to start complaining about this new friend because they did not get the energy from the person and the attention they wanted. They think that this new person is too proud, self-righteous, and very “fake”, he/she is simply wearing a mask, trying to act like a diva. Because this group of friends who are so used to “complaining”, and thus, attract others of the same energy to be around them, they have never seen someone who will not complain before. If someone is different from them and does not complain, this person must not be authentic. They will also feel that this person has a conspiracy within his/her bones and they are afraid that this person will “betray” them by sharing with others that they are a group of complainers.

Another example, some people grew up in an environment where gratitude does not exist. Thus, they think it will be impossible to have a person who is sincere in being grateful in this world. At this time, if such a person exist in their circle of life, they would immediately judge this person as “fake”, wearing a mask to hide his/her true authentic self. This is simply because they are not willing to believe that there is love in the world, they are even less willing to believe that they have problems in believing in love and accepting love.

From the two brief examples above, these are the people who are like frogs at the bottom of the well. They simply think that what they have not seen or experienced, do not exist. This is also a self-righteous thinking.

Speaking your truth or just being self-righteous?

As I have been sharing in my videos and Instagram, speaking the truth is not equivalent to being rude, and using words to hurt others.
Some people think that criticizing others is them speaking their truth, and therefore attract the same treatment to themselves, which is also the result of their own seed (Karma). When they were subjected to this “fruit” (of Karma), they forgot that they had hurt others in the same way before.

For example, when you give a critical remark when no one is asking for your advice or opinion, you are being self-righteous and think that you are better than that person, and that you are qualified to criticize. You have to then prepare yourself to be treated the same way by that action of yours. Because all causes will have their effects.

If you have criticized someone for being vague or have problems with their speech, then you have to accept the effect of this course of action, that is about three to ten-fold of an effect to you, from the universe. Perhaps you will be criticized by others in your career or in areas that you feel is important or felt proud of. So before share the truth of yours, think about how you want others to tell you, if it was you on the other side.

For those who have received criticism, don’t be upset by the words, because these people will get the fruits of the seeds they have planted. And you don’t have to pray for them to get the retribution, because this is the law of the Universe, it will happen. But if you pray, then that is the Karma you have created for yourself.

What you can possibly do when you are hurt, is self-reflection. Does the criticism contain any constructive feedback to help you adjust and grow, and have you ever hurt another through similar ways, sometimes it could be done without you even being aware of. At the same time, know that people who criticize or hurt others are damaged and need to be healed. They create more negativity through hurtful words, projecting their hurt on another. The appearances of such people in your life, may be to raise your awareness to where they need healing and where you need Healing. So when dealing with such, try to relax, sympathize with them and forgive them. And of course, Forgiveness is another profound subject.

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Do not be afraid of people who talk bad about you

Do not fear people who talk bad about you

People talk bad about you because they are intimidated by you, your light. They do not want to be left behind, alone in the dark and thus, hope others stay with them in the dark.

Most of the times, as you realise, the things people talk about you are untrue. Simply because they are just reflecting themselves on you, and making judgements of what they have upon themselves on you. This includes both the good and bad things they talk about. In fact, it is their soul trying to show them the part that they need to bring to light and heal, by reflecting on others.

As they see the light in you, and at the same time their dark aspects being reflected out to them, they are afraid. They are scared that others will judge them like they judged you, so they start to spread untrue things about you, or sometimes they thought are true about you. They do not like it that you are shining your true light, and that is something that they are afraid of. And they do not like it that they are being led to the awareness of their dark aspects, for they refused to believe that that is them. They have to bring you back down with them, so others may see you as them, or even as them being above you, for they are the ones who took the lead to bring you back down.

Let’s talk about an example to help you relate more:

“A group of friends decided to watch a movie together, and they could not decide on the movie title, as there are differing views and preferences. So one of the girls, let’s name her Ada, stood up and said that it is ok to not watch the movie title that she’d like to watch today, and that she can go home so the rest can proceed with what they want to watch. And so She went home.”

So what do you think about this story here? Are you making judgements on Ada or the rest of the group of friends? What would you do or think or feel, if you were the group of friends? OR what would you do or think or feel if you were Ada?

I find this interesting to meditate upon and think about your choices and judgements being made based on this short story, and shall continue in another article at a later date. *UPDATE BELOW*

So you may have knowingly or unknowingly already made judgements on either Ada or the group of friends. Let’s continue with the story.

“After Ada went home. The group of friends were furious and upset. They tried to make Ada to stay and watch the movie with them but, she refused and would prefer to go home. She even offered to watch the movie title that she wanted alone, and would be very happy to meet up again on another day. She would prefer all not to waste time discussing or negotiating and go ahead and watch the movie that everyone desires.

The group of friends think otherwise, and among them, there were also some who prefer to watch what Ada wanted, but they thought to themselves that they would prefer to go with the majority for fear of being talked badly about behind their backs for not having a group thinking. They too, were unhappy with Ada, wondering why if they could “sacrifice” and follow the group and she could not. They were unhappy with the independence thinking of Ada, and the guts of Ada to choose to go home instead of spending the money on something she does not like. They are envious of Ada for being able to stay convicted to her own choice, for not being afraid of the judgements from others.

Ada on the other hand did not have any negative thoughts nor emotions from this episode. She respected herself, and her friends for their choices. She feels that instead of her going along and not be happy which may affect the energy of the group negatively too, and vice versa, she choose to leave in peace and would be happy to rejoin them at a later date for another movie or even gathering.”

I will stop the story here. Have you now changed your thoughts on this story? Take some time again to think and reflect on your life and those around you. Are there similar incidents that happened before?

The group of friends were unhappy with Ada, some thinking that Ada is not being happy by walking away. This is because they, themselves are not happy with what happened and they think Ada would be too. They even thought that Ada is being selfish, but Ada is only standing her ground of her own choice. They were the ones being selfish for wanting Ada to follow them even though she would not be happy doing that. For the ones who sacrificed, they wanted Ada to be like them, doing things that affect them negatively, and not be happy with her choice. Can you see now how everyone is reflecting their own thoughts and projecting them on another?

You may think that this is a very simple and yet “no big deal” kind of example. But, the way you handle a certain thing or event, no matter how big or small, it reflects the way you handle everything. Take time to go within and observe yourself and those around you. How different are you from them and them from you? Have you been afraid of judgements that you have been sacrificing yourself, and jealous of people like Ada?

If you are like Ada, then all the more you should not be afraid of those who are jealous of you, for they are the ones with issues they need to heal. You can choose to help them, or walk away. Because you cannot save everyone, and that you have to ensure your own well is filled before you can fill another.

history will always repeat itself

History will always repeat itself

Why History will always repeat itself? Because Life is not a straight line, but a spiral. You will always come back to the same but yet still different. You will discover deeper meanings into things that you thought you already understood. And this is because, Life is about helping you to realise how strong you always are, and how much stronger you have and will become.

Know that the Universe will never give you anything you cannot handle. Trust and have faith in yourself. You can and have the ability to overcome the challenges, and as you were being reminded of the challenges, you will remember how strong you are and not allow yourself to fall back down. Realise you have come so far with all that you have gone through. You have achieved much and not achieved nothing like you may thought.

If you have been caught in uncomfortable situations, and observed the same cycle in your life. Know that until you realised what you are meant to learn from the lesson, can you be aware of the solution to break this cycle. But as you become aware and observed the same negative cycle that is going on in your life, this is the breaking point where you will begin to open up and receive the solution to break this cycle and stop this repeated history.

Have faith in yourself. Only YOU can break this cycle and only YOU can create your own world.

Your Life Purpose Involves Following Your Heart, Your Joy

Your Life Purpose Involves Following Your Heart, Your Joy

As with the previous post, to find and fulfil your life purpose, you have to be aligned with your Soul, your true self. When you feel joy and happiness, you are aligned with your Soul, your true self, and in turn, you found your life purpose. Are you still confused or getting confused with the opening?

Our Soul, our true self is always guiding us towards our life purpose and our soul purpose. There is a difference and we will discuss the difference of our Life Purpose and Soul Purpose in another article. So to continue, our Soul is always guiding us towards our life purpose is because that is what we set out to do for coming to Earth, to this lifetime. Our soul is Us, and we want to fulfil our life purpose before we leave this lifetime. So you now understand why is it that our heart and joy can guide us to our life purpose? When we are trying to fulfil our life purpose, we are trying to complete our so-called “mission” and when we are achieving our “mission” there will of course be a sense of achievement, a sense of satisfaction and joy, isn’t it? When we are not on our life purpose, we may feel something is being amiss, something needs to be done and yet we do not know and cannot point a finger to this feeling, because we have not yet start on our goal, which is to fulfil our life purpose. It is like when you have not completed a homework from school or a project from work, you will worry, and within you, you know something needs to be completed.

When you are on the path of your life purpose, you will feel happiness and joy from your heart, because within you, your subconscious, your soul, your true self will know that, and “they” are celebrating that “you” and “them” are on your way towards achieving your goals. And as you are clearing the “stages” set out in this path, the Universe will reward you with what you desire and support all your needs.

Trust your heart, trust your joy.

Magic happens when you are aligned with your true self

Magic happens when you are aligned with your true self

Still there are so many people who do not understand the meaning of this quote “Magic happens when you are aligned with your true self”. Just because they do not yet see their true selves and do not yet understand their true selves. What they think they know about their true selves are only but illusions created by their EGOs.

So how do you then know if what you know about your true self is TRUE or an illusion? If you feel frustrated, lost, upset, emotional, all these negative emotions usually stem from you not being aligned. When you are aligned, your soul feels free and loved, you will understand you get to create your world. You will be able to see the magic and miracles that have been surrounding you since the day you decided to come to this Earth. You will be able to see the unconditional love that is and has always been surrounding you, guiding you to your path. And only when you are truly aligned, can you feel this satisfaction and happiness right from within and reflecting it outside to those around you and the world.

Take time to learn and observe, go deep within your inner self, dig deep and discover. The easiest and best method is to meditate. Meditation can help you to train your focus, and silent your EGO, in so let you reach your inner self and have a conversation with it.

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