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What Law of Attraction taught me II

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Previously, I have written a post on What the law of attraction has taught me about my daily life and surroundings, and today will be a continuation in these common daily life examples that everyone can relate to, and to help more to identify and understand the work of Law of Attraction, in order to adjust and heal from our issues and make Law of Attraction work for us, the way we would love to.

Just as what everyone already know, the law of attraction can help us achieve our desires, but that doesn’t mean that if we don’t understand the law of attraction or don’t learn to apply it, it doesn’t exist or is not working for us.

If you have read the article that I’ve posted earlier about the lessons, law of attraction has taught me, you will come to understand that the law of attraction is actually the natural law of the universe. It is constantly working and is always happening for everyone and around everyone. Just like how the sun is always rising from the east and setting in the west.

And many times, where there is “blame” and “negative emotion”, there is a reminder. A reminder that you need healing, and the issue that needs to be healed will be projected on the subject of the “blame”. This is how when you have a certain issue within you, you attract someone of the same to you, whether you are aware of your own issues or not.

For example, A very common scene we see today.
Someone often complains about others for complaining, and the irony is that most of the complaints are about others complaining. Do you see the work of Law of Attraction here?

Another example,
Someone often said that a certain person is not a good friend, because he/she do not lend a helping hand to those in need and at the same time, complained about another taking advantage of others, and he/she will never be like that. However, he/she is not aware that he/she is often taking advantage of others in the name of “friends in need”. Do you see the work of Law of Attraction now from the two examples?

Third example,
Someone often complains about another who does not know how to care for friends, and is very selfish. And the reason was because this other person did not take good care of him/her, and he/she felt neglected and not taken care of, without even realising that the person was trying to help others on another matter. Do you see the work of Law of Attraction and the damage of lack of self-love here?

There are many people and even ourselves may have characteristics very similar to these examples. The issue in the examples are the same and very obvious. The main subject in the examples are casting their own shadow aspects onto the people they are complaining about, and of which, these people whom they are complaining about are bringing information on what they need to heal to them.

This is the work of the law of attraction, where likes attract likes. So if you encounter something or someone that triggers your emotions, you may want to raise your awareness, and carefully observe yourself, and understand your own issues, and allow yourself to heal from this.

By doing so, you can bring in positive energy, disconnect from the negative cycles, and create good cycle of karma. And from here, you will no longer attract those that you complain about into your life again.

The reason to raise awareness to the issues within us is just to heal, and not to prove that we are bad or evil. There is no need to blame yourself or feel guilty. This is also not to prove that the things or people that you are complaining about are right in their way. What you need to know from this lesson, is to gain the direction of adjustment and healing.

Self-blame or Guilt will only allow negative energy to infiltrate more into our own energy field, which is definitely not what we want. What we truly want is healing and adjusting ourselves, so that we will no longer have any negative emotions and reactions to these events that bring us misery and made us uncomfortable. We will then no longer attract the people or events that we complained about into our lives.

What Law of Attraction taught me

One of the Laws of Universe, the Law of Attraction – where things of the same are gathered together, likes attract likes, mentioned things of the same energy will be attracted to each other.

Now observe and think carefully, are you and your group of close friends like-minded? Everyone’s preferences, thoughts, personalities, including feelings and opinions about things and events are similar, and that is what brings you together. This is what “Birds of the same feather flock together” means, Likes attract likes, the Law of Attraction happening around you and for you.

This will also lead to you thinking that for one to be different and inconsistent from you and those around you, they belong to rare species, and you may even think that its impossible, or it must be “fake”, simply because you have not yet encounter such a specie or situation.

Everyone knows very well that the world is vast, and there are thousands of different types of people, and everything is possible. However, if there is a person, or thing, or event that enters into one’s life and disrupt the routine or what has been familiar, thus, creating inconsistency or changes in life, then this person will have a strong reaction and are usually resistance. This reaction comes from the unwillingness to accept changes, and the unwillingness to accept that he/she does not yet know and understand the world as well as he/she has thought to be.

For example, a group of friends like to hang out together to complain, complaining about other friends, colleagues, or supervisors, or family members, everything under the sun. One day a newcomer joins this group, and he/she does not like to complain at all, and does not respond to the complaints of this group. This resulted in the group to start complaining about this new friend because they did not get the energy from the person and the attention they wanted. They think that this new person is too proud, self-righteous, and very “fake”, he/she is simply wearing a mask, trying to act like a diva. Because this group of friends who are so used to “complaining”, and thus, attract others of the same energy to be around them, they have never seen someone who will not complain before. If someone is different from them and does not complain, this person must not be authentic. They will also feel that this person has a conspiracy within his/her bones and they are afraid that this person will “betray” them by sharing with others that they are a group of complainers.

Another example, some people grew up in an environment where gratitude does not exist. Thus, they think it will be impossible to have a person who is sincere in being grateful in this world. At this time, if such a person exist in their circle of life, they would immediately judge this person as “fake”, wearing a mask to hide his/her true authentic self. This is simply because they are not willing to believe that there is love in the world, they are even less willing to believe that they have problems in believing in love and accepting love.

From the two brief examples above, these are the people who are like frogs at the bottom of the well. They simply think that what they have not seen or experienced, do not exist. This is also a self-righteous thinking.

Speaking your truth or just being self-righteous?

As I have been sharing in my videos and Instagram, speaking the truth is not equivalent to being rude, and using words to hurt others.
Some people think that criticizing others is them speaking their truth, and therefore attract the same treatment to themselves, which is also the result of their own seed (Karma). When they were subjected to this “fruit” (of Karma), they forgot that they had hurt others in the same way before.

For example, when you give a critical remark when no one is asking for your advice or opinion, you are being self-righteous and think that you are better than that person, and that you are qualified to criticize. You have to then prepare yourself to be treated the same way by that action of yours. Because all causes will have their effects.

If you have criticized someone for being vague or have problems with their speech, then you have to accept the effect of this course of action, that is about three to ten-fold of an effect to you, from the universe. Perhaps you will be criticized by others in your career or in areas that you feel is important or felt proud of. So before share the truth of yours, think about how you want others to tell you, if it was you on the other side.

For those who have received criticism, don’t be upset by the words, because these people will get the fruits of the seeds they have planted. And you don’t have to pray for them to get the retribution, because this is the law of the Universe, it will happen. But if you pray, then that is the Karma you have created for yourself.

What you can possibly do when you are hurt, is self-reflection. Does the criticism contain any constructive feedback to help you adjust and grow, and have you ever hurt another through similar ways, sometimes it could be done without you even being aware of. At the same time, know that people who criticize or hurt others are damaged and need to be healed. They create more negativity through hurtful words, projecting their hurt on another. The appearances of such people in your life, may be to raise your awareness to where they need healing and where you need Healing. So when dealing with such, try to relax, sympathize with them and forgive them. And of course, Forgiveness is another profound subject.

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